What If I Don't Like My Girlfriend's Sex Toys?
I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend wants to try sex toys! Does this mean I’m not satisfying her enough?
On Consent: A Love Letter to My Sons
This study is yours to do. You do not do it through the watching of porn. You do this through anatomy books, reading erotica, talking openly and candidly with friends and adults you trust about what you like, what you don’t like—and you listen.
Good Sex is as Important as Consent
By centering the conversation on your pleasure in its various lusty forms, we dismantle further the idea that women are puzzles to be worked, games to be played, or objects to be won. Eventually the line between sex and rape will become so bright it will be clear they were never connected in the first place.
How I Learned to Love Not Having Sex with My Husband
As we begin to define consent and its extremities, we are beginning to learn that the definition is not cut and dry. I say this not to defend a grey area of consent, but to argue the inability to give full sexual consent without first deconstructing embedded ideas about sex.